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Adult Abstinence programs

11:27 am on Wednesday, November 29, 2006

USATODAY (via Instapundit)

The federal government’s “no sex without marriage” message isn’t just for kids anymore.Now the government is targeting unmarried adults up to age 29 as part of its abstinence-only programs, which include millions of dollars in federal money that will be available to the states under revised federal grant guidelines for 2007.

The government says the change is a clarification. But critics say it’s a clear signal of a more directed policy targeting the sexual behavior of adults.

“They’ve stepped over the line of common sense,” said James Wagoner, president of Advocates for Youth, a Washington, D.C.-based non-profit that supports sex education. “To be preaching abstinence when 90% of people are having sex is in essence to lose touch with reality. It’s an ideological campaign. It has nothing to do with public health.”

I don’t like this sort of thinking at all.  It assumes that teens are inherently irresponsible and cetegorically different from adults.

If abstinences is good for unmarried teens, then I see no reason why it is not good for unmarried adults.  Conversely, if abstenence only programs are not correct for adults, I see no reason why they are correct for teens.  I think a case can be made for or against abstinence, but I don’t think a you can make a logical categorical difference simply based upon age.  From my understanding, sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy work the same for people 15 year olds as they do for 25 year olds.

One of the problems with this concept, and other age based prohibited activities is that it expressly makes the behavior we seem to want teens to avoid engaging in a rite of passage and part of the adult world.  If it is ‘grown-up’ to smoke, drink and have sex, then teens who are naturally trying to become ‘grown-up’ will have an added incentive to engage in these behaviors.  Added to this is the obvious hypocracy of trying to preach that these things are undesirable when you are 15, but perfectly acceptable and enjoyable when you are 25.

I am not fond at all of abstinence only sex education.  I believe that teens have the capacity to be rational and moral actors, and that in the interest of promoting that behavior we should give them full, accurate and complete knowledge.  Their may be good moral reasons for abstinence (Pope John Paul II’s writing on this is quite fascinating) additionally, there may be valid social reasons for promotion of abstinence, as an addition to rather than a substitute for, in sex education and where those reasons would seem to apply regardless of the age of the participant.

Trivializing teens as being incapable of making rational and moral choices though merely helps to ensure that they will not make rational and moral choices.  It is a mistake.

(the relationship between parents and teens is of course somewhat different, as most teenagers are dependent upon their parents slightly different rules apply, however I think most parents would be better served by having the same standards for themselves as their teenagers.)

5 Comments »

Comment by probligo

November 29, 2006 @ 12:15 pm

What do you think should be the minimum age for a driver’s licence?

How about the minimum age for carrying a gun?

Minimum drinking age?

Minimum full contractual age?

How is about the right to vote - what age?

What is the minimum age for volunteering for military service?

All of these (bar one - guns) are currently being hotly debated once again in NZ. I have very mixed feelings about all of these, as you might recall from my postings when the minimum drinking age was reduced from 20 to 18. That debate, along with the minimum driving age, has resurfaced. On the latter, there was the case this last week of a 15 y-o getting his provisional licence, taking possession of his birthday present - a high powered Japanese sports saloon - and killing himself three hours later doing 135kph. He had not been drinking.

Comment by Dave Justus

November 29, 2006 @ 1:09 pm

I don’t think that any of these things should be higher than the full contractual age. In the U.S., that is 18 and I think that the drinking age being 21 is therefore inherently wrong.

Obviously, we have to have some age for ‘adult’ and this is going to be somewhat arbitrary. However, as it is inherent in this concept, particularly in dealing with contractual obligations, that rights and responsibilities are tied in tandem, I don’t see a problem with that. I think that a successful society could be built on that age being 13, and also that 18 or even perhaps 25 would be workable. I have no particular problem with that age being 18. In American society at least, it closely mirrors the point when most people leave their parents home, at least on a temporary basis to attend college.

What I am talking about more than the legal age prohibitions is societies attitudes though. Like the abstinence controversy above. Another example would be anti-teen drinking commercials I sometimes hear that try to tell teens that drinking isn’t ‘cool’ and ins’t ‘fun.’ Clearly, a lot of adults regard drinking as ‘fun’ which is why they do it. Telling teens it isn’t fun is flat out lying to them. If you can come up with real reasons to tell kids not to drink, great, but if you have to lie to make your point, perhaps it is a point you shouldn’t be making.

One can build a fairly compelling argument that X behavior should be illegal until full contractual age is reached simply because dealing with X in a responsible manner is an implicit contract. In that case, you would argue that a teen cannot drink alcohol, because he hasn’t yet reached the age when he can be obligated to drink responsibly. Having a rite of passage to adulthood tied with being responsible is a good thing, and I think greatly changes how that rite is thought of. In such a circumstance drinking is not being an adult but having the ability to drink responsibly is being an adult.

I have never seen this particular line of reasoning being used though.

I think it is probably beneficial to have some of these priviledges extended before full adult status. I don’t know that the particular ones matter so much, in the U.S. driving is legal at 16 in most states. Of course young and inexpirienced drivers cause problems, but I expect that moving the age would not solve those problems, merely change the age at when they occurred. Obviously, it seems that certain things like volunteering for the military would have being of legal contractual age as a prerequisite.

There are other examples. I have never seen any arguement as to why porn is bad for a 15 yo but ok for a 35 yo, yet many parents who enjoy pornography from time to time forbid it to their children. Keeping it out of the eyes of very young children who may not understand it is one thing, but basically if you are old enough to want it, you are in my opinion probably old enough to see it. Making it less of a forbidden fruit would probably solve more issues than it would create.

Comment by Dave Justus

November 29, 2006 @ 1:11 pm

btw: I learned something from your comment, I had no idea that a saloon was a sedan type automobile in british parlance. Here it is a bar, and it took me a moment to understand why a 15 yo would be taking possession of his sports bar and going 135 kph, especially if he was not drinking.

Comment by probligo

November 29, 2006 @ 1:55 pm

Contractual age in NZ is complex. Basically, a kid of 8 can make a binding contract - e.g. buying an icecream or sweets. Full contractual age is 18 in NZ. In between are all manner of exceptions, based upon marital status (a 16 y-0 married person can sign a HP contract, but needs her parents co-signature if she is single. Not simple.

Drinking in NZ is complicated by the “binge drinking” culture that seems to be either (and it depends who you believe) the result of the “six o’clock swill” culture of the 50’s, or the introduction of “alcho-pops”. My son at his 21st birthday was very proud of the fact that he had “hosepiped” a litre of beer and then held it for 5 minutes before chundering it over the lawn. “Hosepiped”? Get large funnel, put in one end of 1″ hose, put other end in mouth, pour beer into funnel. He was most upset when my reaction was “Is that what turns you on?” He was even more disenchanted the next day when my total lack of sympathy for his hangover came to the fore. On top of that was the message that I had difficulty drinking a 750ml beer in two hours without going to sleep. But the binge drinking aspect of young teens (12 - 16 y-os is a major concern.

So, for that reason, I heartily welcome any “social engineering” that might help reduce the problem.

We had a similar, and continuing, government funded anti-DUI campaign over the past five or so years. That HAS had some impact, and I totally agree with the idea.

If someone were to introduce a “parental responsibility” campaign to reduce teenage pregnancies in NZ, I think that would be a darned good idea. Remember Keisha Castle-Hughes? Acadamy Award winner? Now pregnant at the age of 16… How do you “argue” against that? But, given her personal circumstances, how wrong is it…?

Comment by Dave Justus

November 30, 2006 @ 5:34 am

Fairly similar laws regarding age exist in the U.S.

We also have similar issues with binge drinking, and with underage drinking. I don’t have a lot of faith in social engineering solutions.

DUI is of course a very different concept then underage drinking. One, while specific campaigns may be tailored for certain age groups, the behavior is considered reprehensible by society and punished similarly for all age groups. Two, and perhaps more importantly, it is clear why it is a bad idea to drink and drive, and the harm that results is clear as well.

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